“The Pastor’s Wife” — with Norwegian roots and four daughters

Randi Benedikte Brodersen

– a sociolinguist and writer with over 35 years of experience as a university lecturer and researcher in Scandinavia and Europe. She has taught and conducted research at universities in, among others, Norway, Denmark, Sweden, Iceland, the Netherlands, and Germany. Her research focuses on language, identity, and society, with particular emphasis on language use, language attitudes, and academic writing. Brodersen has published a wide range of books, articles, and reviews in Scandinavian and international journals.

Pernille Henrikke Blomelie leaves Aga on Fitjar in 1916, at the age of 23, and travels to America, where her mother and siblings are already living. 

Pernille meets Olaf Blomelie. They are married in 1919. He becomes a pastor. She is now Pastor’s wife Nellie. Together they serve in several mission churches and move to Alberta, Canada:

It is Christmas Eve, and the wind pulled through the walls. They had lit the stove, but the firewood was damp, and the flame flickered with a weak light. She went over to the window and looked out across the white plains. Alberta lay like a frozen land, forgotten by both God and people. Her husband was already on his way to the next congregation, and she did not know whether he would return tomorrow or next week—or whether he would return at all. The road was long. Four churches across more than six hundred miles. (p. 100 in Remember the Ladies!)

Nellie and Olaf have four daughters together: “They were her life’s work”:

“And the girls—yes, they managed. All four of them. One played the organ in a church in Portland. Another worked at a bank, with strength in her gaze and order in her papers. The third lived in Tacoma, the one who had always been the most cautious. And the fourth had become a nurse, with warm hands and clear answers. They were her life’s work. They were her song of victory.” (p. 109).

In Tacoma in 1968, Nellie’s husband Olaf dies. The same year, Nellie visits Norway for the first time after more than 50 years in America. “She placed her hand on her chest and whispered to herself: I never came home—but I carried home with me.” (p. 110).

Pernille – eller Nellie – holdt som mange andre udvandrerkvinder fast ved sine norske rødder i Amerika. 

In the days leading up to Christmas, we meet one of the book’s ten Norwegian women each day. They represent a large and diverse group of female voices that are only now, at the 200th anniversary of Norwegian emigration to America, beginning to be heard.


The book Remember the Ladies is now available

The book "Remember the Ladies: Sown in the Past, Harvested in the Future" gives voice to some of the Norwegian women who emigrated to America between 1825 and 1925. Through vivid retellings, you encounter lives that stretch from fjords and mountains to open plains and great cities—and that still move us today.

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In Norwegian emigration history, women were long given little space—but they carried just as much as men: children, language, hope, work, everyday life, and community. Remember the Ladies! is a part ofVågespel– an initiative that brings forward the voices of a selected group of Norwegian emigrant women from Western Norway. 

Paperback · 116 pages
Authors: Inger-Kristine Riber and Reidun Horvei
Original language: Norwegian (Nynorsk)
Translation: Katherine Jane Hanson
Publisher: Onen Studio
Year of publication: 2025

The English version is only available in the United States.